Intimidating person

Posted by / 13-Nov-2017 09:09

Intimidating person

That's not an unreasonable concern, but sometimes we can be overly cautious around people who appear 'tough'.It's one thing if someone really is in a gang, or they've been known to mug people at their school, but often people will dress and act in a tough way when they're really not that bad.You get used to them, start to see them as normal people, and learn firsthand that they have flaws and quirks and insecurities like everyone else.What also helps is improving your own confidence and social skills.If we're shy, we may assume everyone is constantly looking for a reason to critique our flaws.Some people come across as snobby and judgmental without intending to as well.There's not much to getting past this one except more practice with social and conversation skills so you feel more comfortable in their presence.I think everyone feels a little uneasy and off-balance when they're around those handful of people who just seem to have everything going for them.

Someone may also be nervous around police officers, high-status professionals like doctors and lawyers, religious authorities, or employees who have power in a particular establishment, like bouncers or bartenders.This is another area where some experience can take the intimidating edge off a group.For example, a guy who hangs out with other men more may eventually get used to their style and overwrite his old belief that all guys are jerks who will cruelly make fun of him.They can be scary in their own right because you worry you'll do or say something stupid around them and they'll call you out on it.This is sometimes more of a problem for people when they're still in high school, when all kinds of students are mixed together and they may run into characters like this.

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But if they've done it twenty times in the past already a lot of the fear will have evaporated.

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